Choose Positive Language

No matter how you feel about life at the moment, always use positive language in your profile and choose positive topics – list things you like and things you would like another people to have. Also, avoid sounding aggressive or hard to talk to. Definitely avoid adding any kind of statements like ‘don’t bother contacting me if you’re only after one thing’ – even if the sentiment is true it makes you sound like you’re judging the reader without knowing anything about them and makes you sound unappealing.

Whether you are witty and adventurous or quiet and thoughtful, you’ll find people who like the way you are only if you are true to yourself however it is important no matter what to look approachable and appealing at first glance.